Many times after something has happened, we would think: "This could have been done better!" or "I shouldn't have chosen this!" "Darn, why did I......" etc...

Recently I came to know about a nice lady who has decided to be ordained as a nun due to a terrible terrible horrible heartache...
When I read bout it, I felt the lady was being silly, she shouldn't give up everything, just because a jerk broke her heart.
And then I realise...
I've been doing the same thing, giving up on other pleasures in life cuz of a jerk who broke my heart.

Like the many people out there -
The Tears still drop when watching romantic shows;
The Mind still think back on the yester-years gone by;
but nothing will ever change the fact of the break up & heartaches.
Though its never easy to walk on;
Find other things in life that gives you pleasure in.
Treasure other things that you still have

Whatever has happened has happened. Being hopeful of patching up, doesn't hurt, but why hurt yourself while being hopeful.
There's so much to do while waiting for another wonderful person to appear.

Well... another 'easier said then done' advice perhaps, but I'm gonna try my best. Let my tears fall if they want, but just for that while, and I'm gonna laugh again.

P.S - Clara if you're reading this, thanx for your thoughtful comment.
Cheers